RRG Posted October 27, 2023 Share Posted October 27, 2023 There is a new baby expected in our family. The parents have recently adopted a bull mastiff dog which had been mistreated. I am fearful that the dog will be a threat to the baby. I'm looking for advice about how to handle this situation. Am I being overly concerned? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coneye Posted October 30, 2023 Share Posted October 30, 2023 Nothing anyone can say really except , the soon to be parents if they have half a brain wil watch the dog very very carefully to suss out its temprement , and when the babys born , double , treble and quadruple watching the dog with the baby , and that is for all dogs be it the old or the new dog . When my youngest was around 12 months old , i was given a really really nice doberman , it was from memory around 18 months maybe 2 years old , a bit scatty but a very nice dog , it very quickly became my jogging partner , came to work with me and become my mate , but the wife said get rid , and she meant it , the dog had not done anything wrong it was really a good dog , BUT the wife just did'nt like the way it looked at the baby , she said she simply did'nt trust it , i started to watch it very carefully and soon agreed it did tend to just stare at him , it never went to interact in any way shape or form with him , and when he went near the dog , it would simply walk away from my lad , i myself then become a bit uncomfortable with how he was looking at the lad , so , i found a home , gave him away , to a guy with teenage kids , over time i would ask how the dogs doing , they were rapt there boys took the dog everywhere , he said he was the perfect familly dog . but he also said to me i think you done the right thing , we don't think he likes babys and small children , i was sad to see a good dog go , but heh , it was my son , we my wife and i both just had a gut feeling and never regretted it , the dog went to a good home and we were never put in a bad position , , really they just have to watch it and remember , no matter how much you love your dog , they are just that a animal and personaly i feel people have to remember that , there not human sometimes we think they are , but there not . and jeez this just reminds me i'm getting old , the youngest lad is now 36 LOL 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebanne Posted October 30, 2023 Share Posted October 30, 2023 I'd never adopt an adult dog with a baby. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mairead Posted October 31, 2023 Share Posted October 31, 2023 No, not overly concerned. Rightly concerned. A killing bite can happen in seconds and in a moment of inattention by parents or grandparents. Young children and babies are regularly killed by dogs. Look it up. Not as often as children killed by parents (left in a hot car, run over in a driveway, unsupervised near water etc) but why take the chance? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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