Sam246 Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 I woke up today and did my usual checking of my puppy's food and water topping them up or cleaning bowls and giving fresh and I noticed that the water in his bowl was yellow I smelled it before tipping it out as I was wondering why he would pee in his only water source it wasn't pee it was beer!! My partner poured beer into his water bowl last night and left our puppy with nothing else to drink but that til I found it this morning, he is extremely apologetic today but I'm honestly livid about this and can't understand why an adult man who claims to love our dog would do something so dangerous and disgusting to his loyal companion 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandgrubber Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 I'd ditch the partner, but it's a little rude to say that, knowing nothing about your relationship and what else is going on. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 Sometimes men think with something other than their brain. What a dangerous and dumb act. Partner will hopefully be in the 'doghouse' for some time after that little trick!! I am presuming said partner was brain-impaired /drunk , in which case do NOT trust him to make good decisions when drunk. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebanne Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 He'd be gone if he was mine. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 Wow That is extraordinary. What next when he is drunk? Football with the dog? I would never trust him again. I’m sure it isn’t as easy as “kick him out” unless you own the house. But I sure would be working out how to do so. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_PL_ Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 Either rehome the pup or rehome him. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bundyburger Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 The partner would be staying elsewhere until he showed he could act like an adult with a brain. He obviously wasn't thinking/drunk so he should not be trusted around the puppy. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 5 hours ago, Powerlegs said: Either rehome the pup or rehome him. What? And be stuck with a person liable to animal cruelty. What comes next . . . . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 19, 2021 Share Posted March 19, 2021 (edited) On 13/03/2021 at 7:18 PM, Loving my Oldies said: Wow That is extraordinary. What next when he is drunk? Football with the dog? I would never trust him again. I’m sure it isn’t as easy as “kick him out” unless you own the house. But I sure would be working out how to do so. Agreed. There is absolute NO excuse for this kind of behaviour! I would never trust him again. What next? Learn from history. Edited March 19, 2021 by Guest omitted word Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted March 21, 2021 Share Posted March 21, 2021 A week later and poster has not responded. I’d love to know what has been the dynamic in that household in that time. Yes, out of plain and simple curiosity, but also thinking of the welfare of the pup. Poster called her partner’s actions “dangerous and disgusting.” I couldn’t live with that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cannibalgoldfish Posted March 21, 2021 Share Posted March 21, 2021 It's actually illegal and you can report the guy... I wish. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teebs Posted March 23, 2021 Share Posted March 23, 2021 What would I do? Well to start with, this post would be called something different Maybe 'ex partner fed dog alcohol and I'm so mad' 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted March 24, 2021 Share Posted March 24, 2021 4 hours ago, Teebs said: Maybe 'ex partner fed dog alcohol and I'm so mad' And perhaps add: I’ve put this all over social media to warn others about this “dangerous and disgusting” drunk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Papillon Kisses Posted March 26, 2021 Share Posted March 26, 2021 Sam, I’m sharing this resource in case you need it. You might like to open it in a private tab. https://www.1800respect.org.au 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moosmum Posted March 26, 2021 Share Posted March 26, 2021 On the other hand, you could help him be a better person than that one. Only you can judge if he wants that, or expects you to accept thats part of his character. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
REALOldNick Posted April 8, 2021 Share Posted April 8, 2021 WOW! Well obviously the answer is that the partner goes! You may be able to split from such a new puppy...but...The guy is an irresponsible ***** with very poor values about helpless beings, who thinks that funny means doing things to them, that may harm them, is funny. When does "may harm them" cross over into "will harm them"? But there are problems here. Can you easily separate from your partner? Finances etc. I used to regularly walk the dog at a park by the river. One afternoon a guy and his girlfriend came with their dog. We had not seen them before. In front of over one hundred dog lovers, he picked up their dog and threw her into the water. I rarely pick fights, being a coward :(, but I could not let this go. I really let loose (and that is something to hear). The guy said he was teaching the dog to swim. I told that all he was teaching her was fear....among other things. I heard his partner mutter "he's right". The next time the dog came to the river there was only the young woman.... I wish you serious luck in your choices. Nick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 13, 2021 Share Posted April 13, 2021 Poster has not responded to comments at all. - Troll? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted April 13, 2021 Share Posted April 13, 2021 18 minutes ago, PepperP said: Poster has not responded to comments at all. - Troll? Maybe just didn’t like the responses 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
westiemum Posted April 26, 2021 Share Posted April 26, 2021 Don't bother rehoming your partner and passing the problem on - straight to the vet's for euthanasia. You and your puppy deserve better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted April 26, 2021 Share Posted April 26, 2021 1 hour ago, westiemum said: Don't bother rehoming your partner and passing the problem on - straight to the vet's for euthanasia. You and your puppy deserve better. LOL. Best solution. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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