How to help this family?

[Loba]

Friends of mine are looking to get a family dog that will be predominantly a companion to their 11 year old daughter. I have suggested a CKCS but they are adamant they want a dog the size of a Labrador at least. 

 

Could an 11 year old manage a Golden or a Lab? Anyone else have any better suggestions please? 

[persephone]

The family needs to want a dog . the 11 yr old needs to REALLY be committed to caring for and training a dog . What dog does SHE want ? 
Getting a dog SHE does not like the look/size/popular image of  will possibly mean she will not invest as much into its care & training . 
have you spoken to her ,away from the family ..just conversationally ? maybe go thru dog books, or online sites together ..see what she thinks ? 

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[Dogsfevr]

Given they say a family pet I gather the whole family will be involved in its training whether big or small .

Children can handle any breed if the right training has been put in .

An untrained Davie May be smaller to deal with but can still be just as unpleasant as a big dog .

 

do they want a smooth coat

do they want to brush a coated breed includes the 11 yr old .

are they prepared to spend money at a groomers for a coated bred.

inside or outside dog 

car size and outings what will best fit there potential lifestyle .

swimming no swimming 

something to snuggle ,easy to pick up ,costs less or more to feed ,costs less or more for product treatments etc 

 

Start a list like this for the family and see what they really want.