Cheys232 Posted February 9, 2014 Author Share Posted February 9, 2014 No I'm not the confrontational type at all I just want a nice dog to add to my family I have two children and have always loved golden retrievers but I guess I let my heart over rule my head in this instance my kids are going to be disappointed as well, but that is life I suppose my husband feels very uncomfortable buying this dog now as do I Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Spotted Devil Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 And remind yourself that, with 2 kids in the house, it is critical to have a dog that is of stable temperament and will not bring heartbreak to your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 better the kids be disappointed now than a year down the track if pup showed behavioural/health probs and there was no support from the breeder .... I also hate confrontation --- just 'rip the bandaid off quick' and send an email ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheys232 Posted February 9, 2014 Author Share Posted February 9, 2014 Isn't temperament a lot to do with how they are socialized and trained? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Spotted Devil Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 Isn't temperament a lot to do with how they are socialized and trained? For sure. And socialisation with litter mates and Mum is critical during the first 8 weeks. Genetics is also important though - just like height in humans for example - you are born with the genes that dictate how tall you will grow BUT poor nutrition (ie environment) can cause stunted growth. So, they don't reach their full potential. Temperament is much more complicated! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 Isn't temperament a lot to do with how they are socialized and trained? A lot of it also comes from the parents - ;) some more homework for you ............. HERE A puppy is born with its own temperament/personality . What happens with the raw material is then dependent on its upbringing. :) Not all pups are the same - which is why, at around 6-8 weeks , an ethical experienced breeder can match a puppy with a family/home :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessicaM Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 Years ago I bought a pup from a backyard breeder, I didn't know any better but to this day she has a bad luxating patella. (Bad knee) when it requires surgery it will cost me alot. I know of someone who has a german shepherd pup and needed to do surgery on her pup at just over a year old! Elbow displaysia and it cost her around 3 grand in total for xrays surgery pain killers etc. Send an email and tell her you've changed your mind. Find a registered breeder and buy a healthy puppy who's parents have been hip and elbow scored with low scores, you will be better off in the future :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheys232 Posted February 9, 2014 Author Share Posted February 9, 2014 So would I be better off buying a puppy from this breeder? http://www.dogzonline.com.au/breeds/member.asp?name=GLENDARELABS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 ..I thought you wanted a Golden Retriever? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheys232 Posted February 9, 2014 Author Share Posted February 9, 2014 I did but a labrador is just as good as a fit with our family I feel maybe even a better fit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justrace Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 Many years ago I purchased my first own dog, I could have paid an extra $300 for one that was unregistered but from registered parents (this was about 25 years ago and I'm lead to believe that the rules for registering were different back then) but $500 seemed so much money. So I decided to go the cheaper option and went to look at a BYB's litter. I felt so sorry for this little puppy that was being jumped all over and decided that I couldn't leave it there. This dog was only $200, but within the first 6 months cost me more than the extra with the skin condition that it had. She ended up having really bad hips and was allergic to almost everything. We revamped our backyard pulling out anything that she reacted to. The medication for her hips and the special food that she had to be on long term far out weighed the initial purchase price. She was the best dog as far as temperament went, but health wise she was a ticking time bomb. She ended up going to rainbow bridge when she was 9 The initial purchase price is nothing if you are going to be faced with constant vet bills for things that possibly could have been avoided. Good luck, go with your gut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purdie Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 http://www.dogzonlin...e=QLD&Submit=Go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justrace Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 There was a mature Labrador (still only young though)in the mature dog section. They are waiting for the right home for him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 they are very different! , Labs & Goldens ....... No idea of the breeder you mentioned - the thing about buying a pup is to do your research! Research the lines - check as to what the temperament is like ... what have these dogs done ? Have any of teh family been shown - worked- trained as assistance/guides or anything? Word of moith is a wonderful thing when seeking a breeder !! maybe check out who has labs on here - what breeder they got them from, and how happy they are ??? :) some are just way too boisterous to have around young kids .. labs , in my experience tend to go 'through' people/kids rather than go 'round' ... Don't forget too they shed 26 hrs day ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheys232 Posted February 9, 2014 Author Share Posted February 9, 2014 Wow you all make it seem like an impossible task to find a good dog to add to our family I have researched both breeds and they are similar in a lot of ways what would be a good family dog in your opinion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheys232 Posted February 9, 2014 Author Share Posted February 9, 2014 My puppy will be going to puppy school and further training when it is old enough it will be walked two times a day and well socialized it will be crate trained at night, and whenever I can't supervise it while it is young and needs it I am home most of the day to spend with it this isn't a rush decision for our family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 LOL Cheys232, if you continue with DOL, you will find that even perfection is not enough for some people. The fact that you came and asked questions the moment you had doubts should speak volumes for people about how you are going about getting a puppy. I really hope everything turns out well for you and before too long a lovely little, lucky puppy will have joined your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 :) Sorry you now seem to be feeling that it's impossible - Not impossible - but Impulse isn't the way to go, either . You have planned and have good things in mind for your new pup - and yes, it's your choice . what makes a good family dog? eek? How long's a piece of string? this is a very individual situation .. for some families, it's a small dog - others, one who is rambunctious and an exercise fiend ..or large and goofy .. What has led you to choose a goldie or lab? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
persephone Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 LOL Cheys232, if you continue with DOL, you will find that even perfection is not enough for some people. The fact that you came and asked questions the moment you had doubts should speak volumes for people about how you are going about getting a puppy. I really hope everything turns out well for you and before too long a lovely little, lucky puppy will have joined your family. agree!! I think it's great :) and another from me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Spotted Devil Posted February 9, 2014 Share Posted February 9, 2014 Wow you all make it seem like an impossible task to find a good dog to add to our family I have researched both breeds and they are similar in a lot of ways what would be a good family dog in your opinion? No it's not that at all :) But I don't know many Lab/Golden breeders and the ones I do know are bred specifically for certain purposes eg retrieving, so I always recommend people do their OWN research. If I can give a breeder recommendation I do so. Most on this forum would be aware that the human-dog relationship often breaks down due to unrealistic expectations on the part of the owner. So whilst I love the two breeds I have I will always tell you the negatives first because all you will see of my dogs is they are intelligent and pretty well trained. But you won't see the HOURS of work I've put into training and exercising them nor the number of times I sweep up all the hair in the house! We also know that puppies are cute and exciting but they can be hard work! Go in with your eyes open - call some breeders, ask if you can meet their dogs and work out if they are the dog for you. They can be very boisterous with young kids also but I'm not sure how old your kids are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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