Rebanne Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 They aren't robots, you can teach small children things but it doesn't mean they always do as they are told! No, neither are dogs. But dog owners are still held accountable for their dog's behaviour and expected to supervise them so that they don't annoy others, even if all they want to do is play. It is the parents' responsibility to ensure that their children don't bother others. If the children can't be trusted to listen, the parents should supervise them or take steps to ensure that their kids are not in a position to annoy others. Most people don't supervise their dogs all the time so I don't consider that a valid comparison, and in this particular case the OP has confirmed the parents are not concerned with what their children do and may have tried to bait the dog, so very different to parents who understand the right of children to play, learn, explore, learn consequence and develop normally without being monitored constantly and also understand their responsibility for their childrens behaviour when they are exploring their world. Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erinonthefarm Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BC Crazy Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Sorry but these children sound like "Children " If they do this : poke a bat through the fence , then this will happen: the dog barks when i pull it back through.. So you think mum and dad should be slapped for normal child behaviour? OP talk to the parents you might be surprised at their reaction , just don't go off screaming at them, tell them what their darlings are doing and could you talk to them please .. :-) Parents should be slapped if they've never taught their kids not to torment animals, yes! I don't see how tormenting animals is "normal child behaviour".It certainly wasn't on my list of fun things to do as a kid. Same here !! Totally agree with you. Pat them yes, torment them no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minimax Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebanne Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? no, control your kids and don't allow them to torment innocent creatures just so they can learn some consequences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Odin-Genie Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! Totally agree minimax. The OP's dog was in its own yard. The children were poking stuff through the fence. That's not normal 'exploring' and should not be allowed. The OP should not have to put up with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WExtremeG Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! Totally agree minimax. The OP's dog was in its own yard. The children were poking stuff through the fence. That's not normal 'exploring' and should not be allowed. The OP should not have to put up with that. +1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erinonthefarm Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 I never said children should be able to torment dogs, only that they should be able to learn about the world without being monitored at arms reach, so take it down a notch Rebanne :) My children, visiting children and my dogs are always supervised closely together, so I personally have no problem. I have Dobermanns so appreciate risk managment and public perception of my dogs behaviour and am realistic about what would happen if I didn't mitigate the risk, even to children who I don't like (yes there are some!) because my dogs would in all likelyhood pay for it with their life. Personally I would be doing what I could to keep my dog safe from other kids in the OP's position, by making my yard unapealing to children jumping the fence, keeping my dogs secured inside when I'm not at home or moving house if need be, I have moved quite a bit and wouldn't hesitate if I had neighbours from hell and my dog might be provoked into attacking them or end up getting baited by them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erinonthefarm Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 (edited) Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! The dog's clearly not kept away from the children if they are climbing the fence. Edited May 25, 2012 by erinonthefarm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minimax Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! The dog's clearly not safe and kept away from the children if they are climbing the fence. lol, that's screwed logic. if kids climb into a dogs yard you can't say the dog isn't being kept away from children. maybe the child should be tied up so it doesn't climb the fence! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staffyluv Posted May 25, 2012 Author Share Posted May 25, 2012 I never said children should be able to torment dogs, only that they should be able to learn about the world without being monitored at arms reach, so take it down a notch Rebanne :) My children, visiting children and my dogs are always supervised closely together, so I personally have no problem. I have Dobermanns so appreciate risk managment and public perception of my dogs behaviour and am realistic about what would happen if I didn't mitigate the risk, even to children who I don't like (yes there are some!) because my dogs would in all likelyhood pay for it with their life. Personally I would be doing what I could to keep my dog safe from other kids in the OP's position, by making my yard unapealing to children jumping the fence, keeping my dogs secured inside when I'm not at home or moving house if need be, I have moved quite a bit and wouldn't hesitate if I had neighbours from hell and my dog might be provoked into attacking them or end up getting baited by them. I have lived here for over 15 years and I own the place outright... I won't be moving. In saying that, the back neighbours have lived there for about 10 years or so... In all that time, they came around and asked us to stop the dog barking, we explained it wasn't Ollie as he is inside when we are not home... We suggested it was probably the dogs next door to us.. A disagreement ensued between my husband and the other guy when the other guy suggested our 'insert expletive' dog is a menace and disturbs his peace... OH told him to take a flying leap (not necessarily those words).. They left and about a week later we found the chunk of steak in the backyard with what looked like green stuff (we assumed ratsak).. We told the police at the time and nothing further has happened in all those years... I took the big fence down on my side as the kids are older and jump in my yard to get toys when they get hit over the fence... I thought I was doing the right thing by the kids as I really don't want to see them get hurt... It was an old mini orb fence and rusty on the edges... I don't think for a minute that Ziggy is in any danger whatsoever.. If I did, I would act accordingly. I think the kids were probably playing with him through the fence and my son saw the end of it... These kids don't come across as horrors.. They are just little kids... I think it is unfortunate that they were poking the stump through the fence and Ziggy got it,mthey are now down a stump for their games... Ziggy is not a danger to them coming in the yard (my concern was them hurting themselves on the big tin fence as they are little kids)... I don't want to approach the parents as there was that one issue years ago... It is easier to let it be... Ziggy ends up with extra toys (if i dont get them before he chews them up and give them back to the kids) and I don't have to have a disagreement with my neighbours... I believe kids should be taught how to approach the owners of dogs and ask if they can interact with the dog before touching it... However, not everyone views dogs like I do and I realise there will always be inappropriate people who let their kids run up to unknown dogs... Lucky for me Ziggy is pretty bombproof when it comes to kids... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erinonthefarm Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! The dog's clearly not safe and kept away from the children if they are climbing the fence. lol, that's screwed logic. if kids climb into a dogs yard you can't say the dog isn't being kept away from children. maybe the child should be tied up so it doesn't climb the fence! Yeah, but if you can't change the kids behaviour then that is the situation if the dogs safety is a concern. Children used to get tied up, probably not an acceptable practise nowadays :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erinonthefarm Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 I never said children should be able to torment dogs, only that they should be able to learn about the world without being monitored at arms reach, so take it down a notch Rebanne :) My children, visiting children and my dogs are always supervised closely together, so I personally have no problem. I have Dobermanns so appreciate risk managment and public perception of my dogs behaviour and am realistic about what would happen if I didn't mitigate the risk, even to children who I don't like (yes there are some!) because my dogs would in all likelyhood pay for it with their life. Personally I would be doing what I could to keep my dog safe from other kids in the OP's position, by making my yard unapealing to children jumping the fence, keeping my dogs secured inside when I'm not at home or moving house if need be, I have moved quite a bit and wouldn't hesitate if I had neighbours from hell and my dog might be provoked into attacking them or end up getting baited by them. I have lived here for over 15 years and I own the place outright... I won't be moving. In saying that, the back neighbours have lived there for about 10 years or so... In all that time, they came around and asked us to stop the dog barking, we explained it wasn't Ollie as he is inside when we are not home... We suggested it was probably the dogs next door to us.. A disagreement ensued between my husband and the other guy when the other guy suggested our 'insert expletive' dog is a menace and disturbs his peace... OH told him to take a flying leap (not necessarily those words).. They left and about a week later we found the chunk of steak in the backyard with what looked like green stuff (we assumed ratsak).. We told the police at the time and nothing further has happened in all those years... I took the big fence down on my side as the kids are older and jump in my yard to get toys when they get hit over the fence... I thought I was doing the right thing by the kids as I really don't want to see them get hurt... It was an old mini orb fence and rusty on the edges... I don't think for a minute that Ziggy is in any danger whatsoever.. If I did, I would act accordingly. I think the kids were probably playing with him through the fence and my son saw the end of it... These kids don't come across as horrors.. They are just little kids... I think it is unfortunate that they were poking the stump through the fence and Ziggy got it,mthey are now down a stump for their games... Ziggy is not a danger to them coming in the yard (my concern was them hurting themselves on the big tin fence as they are little kids)... I don't want to approach the parents as there was that one issue years ago... It is easier to let it be... Ziggy ends up with extra toys (if i dont get them before he chews them up and give them back to the kids) and I don't have to have a disagreement with my neighbours... I believe kids should be taught how to approach the owners of dogs and ask if they can interact with the dog before touching it... However, not everyone views dogs like I do and I realise there will always be inappropriate people who let their kids run up to unknown dogs... Lucky for me Ziggy is pretty bombproof when it comes to kids... My hackles go up when people start talking about physically abusing other people, having been on the recieving end of that myself as a child, a little more tolerance in the world would be a great thing. I think this whole thread pretty much turned into a hypothetical scenario not really related to Ziggy and the kids over the back fence- Sorry Ziggy for stealing your thunder! I hope he enjoys his manna from the heavens (or over the back fence) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheridan Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! The dog's clearly not safe and kept away from the children if they are climbing the fence. I find it astonishing that you've turned this into it being the OP's fault for not keeping her dog safe. The dog is in its own yard. The kids have no right to the backyard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erinonthefarm Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Children do not have the right to learn the consequences of their behaviour with my dogs! Keep your dogs away from children then? I would presume having the dogs behind a fence on your property would be considered keeping them away from the children! The dog's clearly not safe and kept away from the children if they are climbing the fence. I find it astonishing that you've turned this into it being the OP's fault for not keeping her dog safe. The dog is in its own yard. The kids have no right to the backyard. I've edited that post- now reads the dog is not kept away from the children if they are climbing the fence, I don't think I ever said the kids have a right to be in the backyard? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dame Aussie Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 I think it's the kids who aren't kept away from the dog rather than the other way around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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