KismetKat Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 (edited) Friend's hubby decided he really wanted a dog again. Despite a number of us talking to him about deciding on breed etc. he just went out one day and got himself a poodle cross from a pet shop. My friend made it very clear to her hubby that the dog is his (she's got a cat). I think the pup is about 6 months old now and he's really got the irrits with it cos when he comes home it just whines at the door wanting to come in (the dog is now left outside most of the time). It's had no training (tho is a smart dog and has learnt 'sit' with minimal teaching) and I don't think it gets any walks. Between the pup whining and the hubby whining the situation is driving my friend nuts. I feel for her, but really really feel for the poor pup. Also, unsurprisingly, this pup (a min poodle x maltese) has grown a lot taller than expected - so its jumping up is becoming a bit of a problem. Firstly - am I right to say that both these breeds are inside dogs? So if both breeds should be kept inside with family then a cross should also be kept in with family. Secondly, wife has mentioned to hubby about trainers who come in, spend an hour telling you what to do, and then leave it to you. Given the situation I think perhaps regular attendance at a dog school might be a better option. I think Knox Obedience Club would be handy for them - any feedback about this club? Edited March 21, 2010 by KismetKat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KismetKat Posted March 20, 2010 Author Share Posted March 20, 2010 1 more question - the dog is apparently still quite mouthy - shouldn't it be over this by this age? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OMD² Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 1 more question - the dog is apparently still quite mouthy - shouldn't it be over this by this age? Not if it has not been taught other wise! By the sounds of it the husband is a wanker and it is time the wife took control. Especially if she cares about the poor dog! If he doesn't want to teach it, walk it etc then SHE will just have to do it imo. Or find a good home for the dog where it will get the attention it deserves! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t-time Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 Yes - both these breeds do better in a home environment rather than being left to their own devices in the backyard Get him a poodle statue to look at in the backyard and rehome the dog where it will be loved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huski Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 1 more question - the dog is apparently still quite mouthy - shouldn't it be over this by this age? I agree with OMD. Puppies don't just grow out of that behaviour, they have to be taught otherwise. In fact if they aren't trained not to the behaviour will get worse as they get older as the habit becomes more ingrained. This dog needs training but there's no point taking it to obedience school or getting a trainer in if the family can't commit to it 110%. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mita Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 (edited) Onya, KK, for trying to help. It's a perfect example of why so many dogs get dumped. Someone buys it, with the dreamy idea that the dog will turn into the ideal pet (no trouble at all!). Then they do nothing to bond with the dog (which makes it anxious & not confident), nothing to train it (yes, dogs do doggie things if not trained to do likewise). And, yes, this particular dog is a cross between 2 toy breeds that thrive on being in a home environment. Best of luck in trying to give a reality check to this pair (especially the husband). Make it clear that owners produce the dog they get. And this dog is not getting anything it needs to become socialised within their family. If they can't/won't step up to the plate, the poor little dog should be rehomed. And hope to heaven that chronic anxiety hasn't been set up Edited March 20, 2010 by mita Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dogsfevr Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 If its had no training i dare say it has had very little grooming either,that type of coat is high maintenance . having said that your friend lives with this person so she needs to pull her finger out & help. They may pet your pet thing doesnt cut it,Animals in the house are for all members & if she isnt making any effort to be part of the training then she cant complain either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KismetKat Posted March 20, 2010 Author Share Posted March 20, 2010 If its had no training i dare say it has had very little grooming either,that type of coat is high maintenance .having said that your friend lives with this person so she needs to pull her finger out & help. They may pet your pet thing doesnt cut it,Animals in the house are for all members & if she isnt making any effort to be part of the training then she cant complain either I know they've just had it totally shorn recently. I don't think my friend wants to take charge (tho personally I think she should). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christina Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 This is cruel. Both the breeds are indoor companion dogs. Shoved in the yard neglected is not good for any dog but this one will just keep getting into trouble, pine & get depressed. It is young enough to respond to training & a new life. 6 month old pups get up to mischief even when training is taking place. Still a pup, playing, active & learning boundries. What is it going to learn shoved in the yard ? The best thing your friend can do is to find this pup, which I hope is desexed, a loving indoor companion home & tell her stupid husband too bad. If they let it go desexed it may be conned out of them to a puppy farmer. Popular designer dog nightmare, they look such pretty puppies that fools buy them without further thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frufru Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 The kindest thing to do is Re home now!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skruffy n Flea Posted March 20, 2010 Share Posted March 20, 2010 can anyone hear me screaming!??! nothing more to add cuz it's all been said ... good luck kk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KismetKat Posted March 21, 2010 Author Share Posted March 21, 2010 Well some good news - hubby really is a lost cause so after more chatting with my friend she has decided to take things in hand. She was reluctant to do this as it would make hubby cross ("his" dog) but she thinks it is SO unfair on the poor pooch she will give hubby the finger and just take charge. She stayed overnight last night (we had a big party to go to) so this morning we went out with my two and gave her some training basics. She's now set off home to set things in train. Hubby is at work so much (he's working today) he might not even notice she's taken over until dog (miracleously) starts behaving beautifully. I really do wonder about him - they were both here before we went out and he totally ignorned my two gorgeous dogs. What sort of dog person does that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loving my Oldies Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Well some good news - hubby really is a lost cause so after more chatting with my friend she has decided to take things in hand. She was reluctant to do this as it would make hubby cross ("his" dog) but she thinks it is SO unfair on the poor pooch she will give hubby the finger and just take charge. She stayed overnight last night (we had a big party to go to) so this morning we went out with my two and gave her some training basics. She's now set off home to set things in train. Hubby is at work so much (he's working today) he might not even notice she's taken over until dog (miracleously) starts behaving beautifully. :D I really do wonder about him - they were both here before we went out and he totally ignorned my two gorgeous dogs. What sort of dog person does that? Ah, dear. That is so funny. We all love our dogs so much that we can't understand how anyone else could not also think they are gorgeous and want to interact with them. A friend of mine was over recently, and he is NOT a dog person and his body language and whole lack of interest in the dogs would make you think the dogs didn't even exist. Maybe your dogs' fur colour didn't match his outfit :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Flying Furball Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Good news!! I think this must happen a lot. The dog "belongs" to one person in the household but in fact ends up belonging to someone else who can actually be the master! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mita Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 I really do wonder about him - they were both here before we went out and he totally ignorned my two gorgeous dogs. What sort of dog person does that? I think you put your finger on it. He wants to have a dog that he doesn't really want. Onya, for getting your friend on board to do the right thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FD26 Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Well some good news - hubby really is a lost cause so after more chatting with my friend she has decided to take things in hand. She was reluctant to do this as it would make hubby cross ("his" dog) but she thinks it is SO unfair on the poor pooch she will give hubby the finger and just take charge. She stayed overnight last night (we had a big party to go to) so this morning we went out with my two and gave her some training basics. She's now set off home to set things in train. Hubby is at work so much (he's working today) he might not even notice she's taken over until dog (miracleously) starts behaving beautifully. I really do wonder about him - they were both here before we went out and he totally ignorned my two gorgeous dogs. What sort of dog person does that? Ah, dear. That is so funny. We all love our dogs so much that we can't understand how anyone else could not also think they are gorgeous and want to interact with them. A friend of mine was over recently, and he is NOT a dog person and his body language and whole lack of interest in the dogs would make you think the dogs didn't even exist. Maybe your dogs' fur colour didn't match his outfit Meh. I'm not a "dog person" I just love my own pets When my OH and I got our first dog all of his family said "how is she coping, we know she's not a dog person" lol. It's the same way with children though, I love my son and the children of my family members and close friends, but I definitely don't gush over all children I see - quite the opposite. Some dogs I fall in love with, like my neighbour's bull arab, I could watch him in awe all day..but there are other dogs I would prefer not to even be near! It doesn't have anything to do with how I treat my own animals (who I am obviously in awe of or I wouldn't have picked!) I'm glad your friend has decided to take charge, when I first read the thread I thought it was a bit strange that she could live in the house with a dog and just think "not my problem".. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KismetKat Posted March 21, 2010 Author Share Posted March 21, 2010 Just spoke on the phone - she bought a 2nd dog bed for pooch on the way home. Pup is now happily ensconced in the lounge room in his bed chewing on a toy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ILK Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Just spoke on the phone - she bought a 2nd dog bed for pooch on the way home. Pup is now happily ensconced in the lounge room in his bed chewing on a toy Great outcome . I hope it continues. My heart skipped a beat reading this thread. That poor dog bannished from the pack for no reason at all poor little thing. They only learn to stop mouthing if they feel the natural repurcussions of it. If they mouth their mum or siblings too hard they will soon here about it. How can he learn if he is stuck away from contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OSoSwift Posted March 21, 2010 Share Posted March 21, 2010 Great to see your friend has taken charge. The little dog will have a great time, yes he will still need to learn manners and have training, but he now has the opportunity to shine. Wonderful outcome. If the hubby complains she can tell him to get on his bike! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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