Thank you for taking the time to give such a heart felt and detailed response. Given Sascha is 9 and oh so active, I am leaning towards ignoring the current advice of vet. I feel surgery and chemo would be for my benefit in order to prolong the time I have with her - rather than for her benefit.
I have also researched diet - and given I already cook for my pups, all I need to do is drop the carbs and add more fat and supplements. I do have an holistic vet coming tomorrow for a second opinion and more detailed advice.
Thank you for sharing your story. I understand the heart wrench of the decisions you have made on behalf of your loved one - and support you.
None of us get out of this life alive - I strongly believe the love, joy and quality with which we live is what makes it worth living.
Love to you and yours