sluggo

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I'm still here I knew from the get go that SBT are very close to humans and in particular children, and this is one of the reasons it made the shortlist of breeds due to my young children. Like i've been saying all along i do appreciate more knowledgeable folk (in particular breeders) giving 'constructive' feedback and i have come to realise that SBT aren't suited for an outdoor only life. Now we just need to sit down as a family and rethink our plans.

That could be a possibility, we have been discussing this precise setup over the last few days. There is an upcoming local doggy day out which we will be attending for a chance to meet many different breeds.

And the sad fact is that you'll get what you pay for. A bargain-basement priced dog with bargain-basement type rearing and husbandry and more problems than you could ever have imagined. By listening to what reputable and responsible breeders are saying, you would be more able to acquire a quality bred dog and LIFETIME backup, 24/7 for you and your dog (and beyond sometimes). The transaction doesn't just end when the money is handed over. There probably are breeds out there that would suit your circumstances. In fact, of my current doggy family, my greyhound would more than likely fit right into what you require of him. But you won't know that if you purchase a puppy and you certainly won't get it from any of the Staffords that I have owned or bred. Simply, because I wouldn't place one in your environment. As a child we had had a greyhound x, he was a brilliant dog!

Sluggo, I thought the above two responses were very good and hopefully helpful to you :D They certainly were. I appreciate people taking the time to respond with constructive comments. Cheers!

I have owned dogs before, so i'm well aware and prepared for any accidents. Try sitting on my side of the fence and reading post after post from people belittling and ridiculing you...i'm sure you'd react in the same way. I could easily ring the first BYB in the trading post, buy a SBT and throw him in the backyard. Instead, i'm gathering books, reading articles, asking plenty of questions, and most importantly discussing with the family. Surely this counts for something?

What do you know of 'my world'? Nothing

The kids are 5, 3 and 1yo. The closest dog they have is my brother's naughty boxer which would probably frighten any child. They do however get on famously with other well behaved dogs in our neighbourhood. I have no doubt they will form a close bond with whatever pup we choose.

We live in a very small house with a very large yard. The bedrooms and kitchen will definitely be off limits, that leaves the laundry (where he may potentially be housed) and the family room which measures 20m2. That means 2 adults, 3 children and a dog in quite a small room... If we do come to a decision to have an inside dog, then we will more than likely go for something like a whippet given the age of our children.

There is timber decking outside the door which leads straight onto 'brand new' carpet. So there's no capacity for having the door door go through the kitchen or laundry?? I'd suggest a piece of marine carpet or a anti dirt mat (Clark Rubber has plenty of types) on the outside of the dog door might keep the dirt off. I'd also add a mat on the carpet. If we do go down the doggy door path it will be in the laundry, and there is concrete on both sides of that door. The doggy door would only be used overnight for the dog to relieve itself outside. However we never use that door, we always use the back door leading to the deck/pergola and then the yard. This is the door that the potential dog will more than likely use on a regular basis throughout the day. My issue with pets in the house is the shedding of hair, dirt they carry in and that general pet smell. I know people will comment that a dog is as clean as its owner allows it to be, but i know from experience that no amount of grooming/washing will eliminate these issues. I recently stayed at a friends place who keeps a great dane indoors, and she had the whole house steam cleaned prior to our arrival, but the minute i sat on her lounge i got a whiff of doggy smell. My eldest daughter and i suffer from mild allergies to dust etc, so i'm i bit worried about pet hair. I'm a bit obsessive compulsive when it comes to cleanliness, especially personal hygiene for the kids, so the thought of having a dog inside sends shivers up my spine.... i will however state again that i totally understand why people choose to keep pets indoors , i just haven't got my head around the concept as yet, hence the reason for thorough research and plenty of family chats.

There is timber decking outside the door which leads straight onto 'brand new' carpet.

Our kids were shoes when they're outside and they're taken off before they come inside. Do they make Nike sneakers in doggy sizes? I can be just as sarcastic as you if you want to go down that path... I'm looking for some constructive conversation, so if you have nothing positive to add stay away.

You must be kidding? Next you'll suggest i keep a horse in my bedroom!

How do people handle the problem of dogs bringing in dirt from the yard? Do you wipe their feet clean before they step inside or is there doggy footprints all over the carpets? I guess this problem would be compounded with a doggy door, as you can't always stop them before they run in.

Once again, if you took the time to read my post properly you would realise i never said 100% of the time.. i quote, "He will be allowed to wonder inside on occasions, but predominately outside." Obviously if it is bitterly cold or stinking hot the dog will be allowed indoors, i'm not that stupid. BTW, if i wanted a rabbit, i'd join a rabbit forum, so you can keep your smart comments to yourself.

I already have both his books, yet to read them.

You are spot on jettyjet... some people just can't seem to get their heads around this concept

Here Here! BTW, what the heck is an 'OP'?

I have no doubt that an inside puppy is a happy puppy, and i respect people's decision to keep pets inside their homes. As a kid i grew up with dogs which were all happily kept outside, so it's hard to break the habit. Perhaps in time our thoughts will change, we discuss it as a family every night. I just wish people on this forum weren't so judgmental without knowing ALL the facts.

Why? And what about the choice the dog would make? For the same reason i couldn't convince you to buy a red car if you wanted a blue car. I will reiterate one last time... we have not made ANY decisions thus far, so you can all rest easy tonight!

we'd never buy a dog purely based on looks! i never suggested that my kids would walk the dog unsupervised. what sort of mug do you take me for? Once again if you took the time to read my posts properly you would realise that the dog would be walked to and from school. That's a one hour daily walk in itself in addition to playing in the yard with the kids.

Goodness me, it's lucky you're not married to someone like me I hope you have your outside cat in a cat enclosure and don't allow it to wander into your neighbours' gardens. We don't have a cat

No one is expecting you to allow the dog to sleep on your bed so cut the dramatics My dogs don't sleep on the bed, in fact they're probably the only Staffords in the world that aren't even allowed to sit on the sofa. Ok, i was being a little melodramatic The other issue i have is that my wife wanted to bring a fluffy cat into the house which was met by a firm "No" from myself, so i can't exactly turn up with a pup and pop him on the lounge room floor... not that i'd really want that anyway

Didn't you wonder how much experience that poster had with SBTs Sluggo? If a SBT breeder (make that two now) suggests that there may be an issue with your proposed plan, don't you think it should carry more weight than that of a novice dog owner who's never placed pups in homes and who doesn't own your proposed breed of choice? Or will you only thank those who tell you what you choose to hear? Oh well, if you are actually proposing to acquire your pup from a responsible registered breeder and not from some flybynighter who advertises in your local Trading Post, please don't be offended if you get refused a pup based on your proposed sleeping arrangements for it. It may well happen. I do very much appreciate the advise from breeders, but i don't like to be shot down just because i don't want to share my bed with a dog. The fact that i'm on this forum asking questions should be proof enough that i have the animals well being in mind. We are still well and truly in the research stage, and won't commit to a SBT or any other breed for that matter until we are satisfied that we have all the right answers.

Thanks for a non-judgmental and informative reply, much appreciated.