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Hi Kirislin, I installed Picasa 3 just 2 days ago, I now uninstalled yesterday as it didn't work for me either, Cheers Yap

Same here Bub Same Same here Bub, you hit the nail RIGHT ON THE HEAD FOR ME!!! The best ever relationship

Sure for sure. It's real for all of us to lose a dog. Hav you seen a Doc yet, matey? It will help a lot so might be best to make an appointment just so you get yourself sorted first. I have spoken to my doctor several times, He gets mad at me, I have spent $140 ph on phycologist few weeks & nothing has helped me. I tried meds but they didn't agree with me so I stopped & I don't trust meds anyway. The whole thing has effected my entire life. I,m just at a stand still. i'm on heart tabs also.

Sometimes our pets are all we have. so right. they are all I have, they mean the absolute world to me. The thing that people don't understand is witnessing these events that took place & the whole scenerio about the uncaring vet what he did & shoved us off knowing my girl should not have left the drip. I can't go on anymore putting info up here. It rips me to bits. The justice still needs to be done one way or another. I know this agony is slowly killing me too, but i don't know anymore

A dog is not a child but a dog can be as precious as a child. Mine certainly are. Yap, this is a terrible thing to happen. But please see a grief councellor as others have suggested. Yes oh so very very precious, How can I make a change in this world when vet boards turn a blind eye when the vets defenetly neglected. I want to at least bring this info to attention in the newspapers without personal details, to make people aware we are being lied to just to keep these bad vets in practice. Its so not far to destroy humans live as well as our precious loved ones & keep getting away with it when clearly there was neglaect. If only australia had the laws US has. We would probably have an overload in the court systems. It is very real for me with my precious.

OK. Yap, I can understand that you are very upset, and that you are grieving the loss of a much loved pet, under difficult circumstances. And I've been through some pretty tough times myself, and it wasn't a pet and the circumstances were extremely, soul destroyingly difficult. Grief is a real, physiological response which you must work through one step and a time. Everyone does it differently. The good news, is that grief does end. This vet has not destroyed your life. Human beings have the faculty to overcome much more grief than this. You will smile again, in the future, when you are ready, IF YOU ALLOW YOURSELF. If you feel your grief is not changing over time, and progressing, then with all the love and good will in the world, I implore you to get some help either from a counsellor or from a grief support group of some sort. Talking to other people who understand what you are going through helps immensely. This trauma is not the same as a soldier coming back from OS. Nor is it the same as losing a human child. I personally know a solder who had to clean up the remains of his best mate. Actually, a few of his best mates. And I know a couple who said goodbye to their 9 year old daughter at the roadside while she passed away before medical help could arrive. And these people are moving through their grief and on with their lives, as you must also do, in order to honour your beloved dog. You and they and I will never forget, but it will hurt less as time goes by. Would your dog want you to spend your whole life grieving? Or would they rather see you happy? You may never be the same again, but you will be stronger, wiser - and this is the special gift that your pet, that loving your pet, has left with you for your whole life. Embrace it, move through your grief and seek justice when you are stonger. I just can't see an end to my greiving, I know Iwon't be able to see it now but when will it end It'll end when you are ready. When you let it end, and when you have done the work. When you have allowed the grieving process to work. It will end. It should change. Day 7 should feel different from Day 1. Day 14 will be different again. If it is changing, then no matter how much it hurts, it is normal and you are ok. If it gets stuck, if the process stops and day 14 feels the same as day 5, then there is a problem and you do need help. The biggest thing for me, was giving myself permission to be happy again. That took about 2 or 3 months. Keep a journal of how you feel every day, and every day try to do something to bring a little light into your life. A walk. Watch the sunrise. Do something physical. Physical movement helps incredibly. You go from being incapable of doing anything, to being able to eat, then perhaps you can spend a little more time out of bed. Brush your hair and get dressed properly every day. Go through the motions of life. Eventually it will start to feel a little less surreal. You won't want the company of people you don't know well for quite some time and you may feel disconected. I still do. But I have joy in my life again, and I am happy. I'm just deeper than some other people and I just can't related to some people. It's been 4 years. One day, you might feel like being happy. Give yourself permission. You will shine again - brighter than before. Thank you I will try to try. Thats even hard.

OK. Yap, I can understand that you are very upset, and that you are grieving the loss of a much loved pet, under difficult circumstances. And I've been through some pretty tough times myself, and it wasn't a pet and the circumstances were extremely, soul destroyingly difficult. Grief is a real, physiological response which you must work through one step and a time. Everyone does it differently. The good news, is that grief does end. This vet has not destroyed your life. Human beings have the faculty to overcome much more grief than this. You will smile again, in the future, when you are ready, IF YOU ALLOW YOURSELF. If you feel your grief is not changing over time, and progressing, then with all the love and good will in the world, I implore you to get some help either from a counsellor or from a grief support group of some sort. Talking to other people who understand what you are going through helps immensely. This trauma is not the same as a soldier coming back from OS. Nor is it the same as losing a human child. I personally know a solder who had to clean up the remains of his best mate. Actually, a few of his best mates. And I know a couple who said goodbye to their 9 year old daughter at the roadside while she passed away before medical help could arrive. And these people are moving through their grief and on with their lives, as you must also do, in order to honour your beloved dog. You and they and I will never forget, but it will hurt less as time goes by. Would your dog want you to spend your whole life grieving? Or would they rather see you happy? You may never be the same again, but you will be stronger, wiser - and this is the special gift that your pet, that loving your pet, has left with you for your whole life. Embrace it, move through your grief and seek justice when you are stonger. I just can't see an end to my greiving, I know Iwon't be able to see it now but when will it end

I have been seeing a greif counciller but I know it's done no good. I am very attatched to my k9s so maybe child not to you, a very big part of my family to me like i said "AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT FEELS THIS ATTATCHEMENT?"

How do you get a case if the vet board turns a blind eye?

I,m just looking for answers, My heart can't take this, Should a so called vet be allowed to get away with murdering your child?-k9. All the B*% did was handed me meds, told me to give extremely high doses & see me back in a week. My child endured an extremely slow cruel exruciating death that no-body has been able to help us with justice. Witnessing this, beleive me, my whole world is changed, AM I THE ONLY ONE? When a real CARING vet should & will monitor CLOSELY & not send them home to die. I am DESTROYED inside & out, ( I now know how those army guys come back traumitised a CHANGED person FOREVER) feel. These B*% have destroyed good peoples lives forever & GET AWAY WITH IT & KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH IT!! The vet board has turned a BLIND EYEGod I now just want to be with my girl. ;) :D My heart will give way soon, I can't do this.

I fully agree

Or did the other dog have a bad start, ( got more than the usual attention when it was sick or something happened to it?) They develop dominate behaviours if their fused over obsesively by their owners unfortunately when they are not well. fine line I kinow. Its a long road to correct that behaviour. baby steps. Every new member introduced slowly. Give all equall attention. do not give extra attention to pup. I wouldn't let the older dog fight or be rough with him thats not on. Remember you are the leader of the pack! Good Luck

I was thinking the same thing as Aziah, 'cueing the problems'.

A bit late on answering, but anyway try Mt Kembla Kennels, they are really great & secure, they have air condition, grass runs. nice & clean, i think by memory the guys name is Ben, You have to have opt to meet them there from 4pm. They are really good. I have used them & was more happier with them than Horsley kennels. When I went to drop off my dog there they had extremely loud rock music playing in the dog section, ( mind you at that time a young guy was working there) I asked that my dog be placed away from this. But who knows. When I picked him up his blanket was excess with his fur which told me he was under great stress. Thats why I wouldn't use them again but hey that was a while ago you gota go suss the place out & do ask LOTS of questions. Mt Kembla is the one to try. it is situated behind figtree.

Find your nearest Snake Handlers in your area or wherever & phone them & have a chat to them. They are the best to talk to & get advice. We had a python removed sunbaking in the tops of our willow pines which reached next to our kitchen door. Very Frightening as we had one of our boys tied up on the this verandah in the morning. Bbbbbrrrrrrrrrrr gives you heeevvvy cheeeevvvies.