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For me , it would be now . This isn't 'quality of life' for your boy. It's at these times we need to step back, and imagine what our dogs are feeling..every time they go to do something simple, like walk or poo, and fall over No enjoyment of living here . As said, reaching teen years is amazing... let him rest now ...

I agree- why bother feeding imported ?

Done Absolutely beautiful pieces of craftswomanship

Ooh... puppy spam Most welcome! Hopefully Bella is a good Big Sister

Awww... how wonderful to see her bouncing What a difference you have made !

My first dog was Cleve , a border collie .

There is no way hair/skin cells from dog can be eliminated entirely by these machines, in my opinion ....they would need to have a VERY strong suction happening to gather it all up from the floor/furniture cushions, etc ! LOL . Pollen I can sort of understand ..that being microscopic , and suspended in the air ... but dog hair etc ..I very much doubt it. there are so many non- drowsy antihistamines around....there maybe one which suits the person for that short term usage .

Oh, it IS raw..it's only a very short time ..your mind will still be scrambled and reactive ...

Oh I think it is a wonderful offer- very kind and thoughtful .

Yes..that thought would steer me away, for sure! Generous offer, or not.

A new dog is certainly NOT a 'replacement '..it is a NEW beginning - someone different, a new challenge ..new tailwags, new mischief, new ways of showing love . You will start to sort this out when GRIEF start to be a bit less brutal , and yr brain can have a bit of thinking room. Do you want a puppy who reminds you of Kane in looks/manners every day? Do you want the memories ? Are you willing to accept another puppy may be the complete opposite? Lots on which to ponder It is a very generous offer ...and definitely worth considering ...

You cannot compensate them until you have seen proof of the illness. That seems simple enough to understand . explain that you cannot decide on compensation, until you have seen the extent of the murmur, and the prognosis .

You obviously need proof. Perhaps they don't understand they are required to provide proof?It would be the same for an insurance claim for a car/fridge/whatever...the insurer can not just take a buyer's word. Maybe just ask for their Vet's contact details ..that way you can bypass them and get correct information , so as to provide whatever support is necessary .

Just because it has size, doesn't mean it has the temperament . Remember my Kieran? He was a staghound X bred for pigging ..dumped to die in the bush at around 9 weeks because he was a sook..and remained so his entire life .A rabbit could set him shivering ! He was a watchdog , and could , on rare occasions be aggressive toward certain types of humans however.

I second this

Gorgeous girl And what great news!! Looking forward to puppy? photos!

Just a couple of things ..as I really can't help..but what breed of puppy is your new acquisition , and has he/she been exposed to a crate etc yet ?

Especially when they will impact on those in your care I am sorry, and hope you find someone in whom you can place your trust .

Such a cute photo ...

canine tooth extraction is NOT cheap . Canine teeth are difficult and time-consuming to remove , because of the anatomy / depth of the root in the jaw structure , and I would imagine a BIG bill . Anaesthetics/medications also go on weight ..so large breed = more expense

It's hard. It can be worse than losing a person. Grief will do what it need to do . Sleep is good, crying is good .... you have been hurt, badly . Eventually it will lessen a bit . Not tomorrow..maybe not next month..but it will . It takes a long time when the hurt is deep. If you need to, talk to a counsellor , or your GP . They will not think you are being silly . Most of all, remember , while it is all so very raw and fresh ... please take care of YOU at this time , now it's YOU that needs the looking after .Snuggle with Scout ...she'll appreciate it, too

Oh...oh Dear . He was not meant for this earth, little darling ... what a terrible shock. Take care of yourself ..you certainly did give him everything you could . Forever a puppy, R I P little Kane .

Ah, so the breeder has offered to take pup back. She has offered something. No way will you ever get a refund AND get to keep a pup. She did the right thing, offering that, at least, whatever else is amiss.

... all I can suggest is that you do a phone consult with Steve at K9Pro . he is one of the best . here is the number, and HERE is his bio. He may be able to advise you on which course to follow.