Sezy

I just saw your beautiful Roo, and the odd part was my computer froze right one her!

You will find peace one day....... I was lucky in away with Whiskers, she had cancer and I had times to come to terms with it before she went. Our dogs that I grew up with and a few pet bunnies were all taken to soon for different reasons. I missed them and felt so guilty that I had not done more then one night I had a really weird dream and they were all together in our front yard. It was odd they all came up to me and it was all peaceful and my guilt was gone. I knew from that dream that they were all together and that I would be able to hold and love them again one day when the time is right. For now I am needed here, I have other babies to love.

That link was so sweet...... How are you going Kozpink?

That is so sweet dandydog, you sound like you were lucky to have had one of those "special" pets as well.

How are you going Kozpink???

Kozpink Don't feel bad about having bad days, cry as much as you like until those tears will dry up and you will be able to smile about your dear Roo. It has been years since my sweet Whiskers left and I still have a cry here and there. I think that you need too Sezy

My big black cat has only just started sleeping up near my pillow and I love falling asleep to his soft snooring and different sounds that he makes.

There was a person that met her that did not like her. So Kozpik are you starting to feel alittle better now with things? I love the sleeping choices of your cats bonnie.

Bonniebank they are so sweet. I love my dogs to death but there is something different with my cats. hehe who else can you count on to do the soft snore in your ear at night.

You will call you girl and do lost of silly things, we all have at some time. As the others have said she is not alone and neither are you. I have a wonderful cocker spanial and a maltese, also a cranky cat that did know to be kind when it was needed. I still often talk to them and I will tell them to find your Pepper girl and Roo and show them the ropes, but don't keep them too busy because there mummies still need them close as it still hurts to much. When the pain starts to ease and it will spend some quiet time and I would be that you will feel her near. My girl has been here tonight but she is gone at the moment.

This is my beautiful girl. It has been 2 years and 4 months since we said our good byes but she will always stay in my thoughts and my heart. I was blessed to have loved her and been loved by her. [a tachment=42544:attachment]

I don’t know how to say this Not even sure if I should But I know in my heart If I had a chance I would I wanna say I’m sorry If I ever did you wrong I wanna say I’ve missed And loved you all along Words will never explain How much it hurt when you left I don’t know how else to say it You were the absolute best You were always there to listen And some how never wrong You never had a bad word And were always so damn strong I wish I had spent more time with you Pointless as this now I want you to know how I really feel Ill tell you someday some how I’m scared you’ll never know Just how great a pet you really are You may be out of reach now But you’ll never be too far Ill never get to hug you Or be the owner you deserve Ill make you proud and just like yours, A memory to be preserved. This was written by a 16 year old girl that I know, some sweet words I thought may help.

When you are ready send a pic. I have tried to attach one of Whiskers but it did not work for some reason. I might try again, nope did not work the file is too big. Will have to find a smaller file and try again another day.

Here is a link that has lots of detail on a natural diet. http://greenpet.com.au/article_dog_diet.ph...f6e8f7d35f9d167

Hi Kozpink, Have not been on for a few days so I just wanted to check how you were going?

Roo sounds very special. I would have liked to have met her....

Don't be sorry. I will still often shed a tear when I think of Whiskers. I miss her but I was lucky to have loved her and been loved. Pets are very wonderful things and every so often there is a special one, I was lucky to have grown up with one and it sounds like you have been lucky also. You can ramble all you like. hehe I know that I love telling stories about my babies. Even if they are gone they will never be forgotten. So what was your roo like?

It is never easy, I put my childhood friend my dear cat to sleep over 2 years ago. We had lost pets before but having to make the choice to end her life was the hardest that I have ever done. (I have tears in my eyes typing) In away I was lucky, she had cancer so I had time to plan what I wanted to do but at the same time I was so scared that I would not cope. I found lots of great books on I think it was amazon.com and ordered them (When only The love remains by Emily Stuparyk or Goodbye, Dear friend by V Ironside). If you google pet grief you will find lots of great sites that do help. To me what helped is you need to find your own way to say good bye. I wrote my girl a letter thanking her for all the great times and help when i was growing up, she was cremated with this letter, a photo of her and I and a small cross. For weeks the box with her ashes sat on my bedside table and I kissed her good night still every night, she had fresh flowers every day. Something that I had planned to do but never did was make up a sort of scrap book about her. Her name was Whiskers but she had her little pet names as such, my nephew called her bickie and her fav food of all time was chocolate. These are things that I never want to forget. I have a print of her paw and plan to get a tattoo done of it. These are just some of my things but if they will help you then please use them. I know that my girl will always be with me, I may not see her but i still talk to her. It did take me along time to feel her there. If you are into alternate type things try an animal communicator. You can find one on www.greenpet.com.au or at least a link to one. You can then talk to your Roo. Even look at a book called The Daisy Sutra. One last thing that helped me was a dear little ginger kitten that did belong to a young girl across the road from out house that decided to move house. I worked out that he would have been born around the same time that my dear girl crossed over. He will never fill the gap that she left but I see a lot of her in him. He is hogging most of the chair that I am sitting on. Just know that you are not alone in your grief, it helps to talk and just because it is an animal you have the right to still remember her how you want, grieve how you would like and say good bye in your own way.

Sorry can't help you just wanted to say how cute..... I wish that I had my bc when he was that tiny. hehehe

lol Carter was trained to go in the show ring so he did a perfect stand when I got him home, now that I have taught him to sit, he won't stand. hehehe I can't win. Cally on the other hand has picked up most things with ease, the only problem when we have done stand for exam she gets so excited that someone is coming to touch her that she squeak's. An instructor at the club that I used to train at did not go all that often so did not know Cally and gave me the most worried look when she started her squeaking in excitment.

Try the BARF diet or www.greenpet.com.au has some great natural things as well.